Unlike our military-mocking president, British royals serve

When King Charles III spoke before Congress, he noted how he had served “with immense pride” in the Royal Navy over a half-century ago. He added that he was “following in the naval footsteps of my father Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, my grandfather King George VI, my great uncle Lord Mountbatten, and my great grandfather King George V.”
The king actually shortened the list, probably in the interest of time. Other royal veterans include Prince Harry, who served 10 years in the British Army, including two tours in Afghanistan as a forward air controller and Apache pilot, as well as Prince William, a former platoon commander and rescue helicopter pilot. The many others included Queen Elizabeth II, who served in the Auxiliary Territorial Service during WWII as a mechanic and truck driver.
This British royal tradition makes for an interesting counterpoint to the current would-be American royal family. During the Vietnam War, Donald J. Trump repeatedly ducked service in the U.S. military, getting a doctor’s note suggesting he had bone spurs in his feet. None of his children — Donald Jr., 48; Ivanka,44; Eric, 42; Tiffany, 32 or Barron, 20 –have served.
Apparently, the Trumps are above such service. Indeed, the president has a long history of disparaging those who served.
As The Atlantic reported, we all may recall Trump’s 2015 remarks about Senator John McCain, who was tortured during his five and a half years as a prisoner of war in North Vietnam: “He’s not a war hero,” Trump insisted. “He was a war hero because he was captured. I like people who weren’t captured.”
The following year, Trump publicly mocked and belittled Khzir and Ghazala Khan, the parents of a fallen U.S. Army officer, Humayun Khan, who had been killed by a suicide bomber in Iraq in 2004. (Trump is “devoid of feeling the pain of a mother who has sacrificed her son,” Khzir said at the time.)
Then, in 2020, The Atlantic’s editor in chief, Jeffrey Goldberg, reported instances in which Trump expressed disgust for America’s military dead. At Arlington National Cemetery on Memorial Day in 2017, Trump stood at the grave of Robert Kelly, a young Marine officer killed in Afghanistan. Trump was visiting the cemetery with his then–Chief of Staff John Kelly, a retired four-star Marine general and father to Robert. “Trump, while standing by Robert Kelly’s grave, turned directly to his father and said, ‘I don’t get it. What was in it for them?’”
The year after, on a trip to France and facing a visit to another cemetery, this time to pay respects to service members killed in World War I, Trump complained: “Why should I go to that cemetery? It’s filled with losers.” And, as Goldberg reported, “in a separate conversation on the same trip, Trump referred to the more than 1,800 marines who lost their lives at Belleau Wood as ‘suckers’ for getting killed.”
And in an extraordinary comparison – redolent of the family traits of egocentrism and a bizarre sense of victimization –Donald Trump Jr. in his 2019 book, “Triggered: How the Left Thrives on Hate and Wants to Silence Us,” described a visit to the Arlington cemetery on the eve of his father’s inauguration.
“In that moment, I also thought of all the attacks we’d already suffered as a family, and about all the sacrifices we’d have to make to help my father succeed – voluntarily giving up a huge chunk of our business and all international deals to avoid the appearance that we were ‘profiting off of the office,’” the younger Trump wrote. “Frankly, it was a big sacrifice, costing us millions and millions of dollars annually. Of course, we didn’t get any credit whatsoever from the mainstream media, which now does not surprise me at all.”
“All the sacrifices?” Really? So far, the Trumps have made at least $1.4 billion on daddy’s presidency, a figure The New York Times says is surely an underestimate.
And not one of them has put on a uniform for his or her country.

As the BBC reported, then-Congressman and now Senator Ruben Gallego, who fought in Iraq, responded to the younger Trump on Twitter: “Eight men I served with are buried in Section 60 of Arlington…. I visit them monthly. Even if Donald Jr. lived 1,000 years, he will never even get close to being as good and honorable as they were.”
Author and former U.S. Army Captain Matt Gallagher wrote: “Imagine going to Arlington… and being moved to think about money…. You are a soup sandwich, @DonaldJTrumpJr, and my friends buried there would tell you the same thing.”
That’s military slang for something or someone who is nonsensical. Trying to fix someone like that is as futile as putting soup between slices of bread.
I’m reminded of this now, as we visit a U.S. military base in Germany. Each day here, my wife and I take a couple grandchildren to a base elementary school where hundreds of the children of many of our soldiers attend. As the kids run, laughing and playing like kids everywhere, large planes fly overhead, presumably ferrying personnel and supplies to duty stations, perhaps some involved in Trump’s war on Iran.
We are surrounded by men and women sporting the green and tan combat fatigues of their daily work here – labors that are essential for our country and the world. They are white, Black, Asian, Hispanic, gay, straight. And they are dedicated to their work and to supporting the democracy that is America’s tradition.
At a time when that democracy is under threat at home by our government’s rapacious self-dealers, it takes a British king to gently remind us of our values.
“Distinguished members of the 119th Congress, it is here in these very halls that this spirit of liberty and the promise of America’s founders is present in every session and every vote cast not by the will of one, but by the deliberation of many, representing the living mosaic of the United States in both of our countries,” Charles said. “It is the very fact of our vibrant, diverse and free societies that gives us our collective strength, including to support victims of some of the ills that so tragically exist in both our societies today.”
Such terms as “liberty,” “diverse and free” and the democracy implicit in the phrase “deliberation of many” likely don’t resound with the Trumps or their minions in that Congress. Chances are that such language just rolls off their backs, backs that know little of carrying real burdens for one’s nation.
Unlike our current national leader, 31 U.S. presidents have been military veterans. The group famously includes both Democrats, such as Jimmy Carter and John F. Kennedy, and Republicans, such as Dwight Eisenhower and both George Bushes. None of them disparaged our service members as “losers.”

As always, the British king waxed eloquent, clear and rational in his remarks — a stark contrast to our rarely articulate American leader.
“Today, thousands of U.S. service personnel, defense officials and their families are stationed in the United Kingdom, as British personnel serve with equal pride across 30 American states,” he said. “We do not embark on these remarkable endeavors together out of sentiment. We do so because they build greater shared resilience for the future, so making our citizens safer for generations to come.”
His reprimands were subtle, but unmistakeable. “America’s words carry weight and meaning, as they have since independence,” Charles said in the well of the House of Representatives. “The actions of this great nation matter even more.”
“Our common ideals were not only crucial for liberty and equality, they are also the foundation of our shared prosperity,” he said. “The rule of law, the certainty of stable and accessible rules, an independent judiciary, resolving disputes and delivering impartial justice: these features created the conditions for centuries of unmatched economic growth in our two countries.”
Tragically, with such qualities now in jeopardy from a pretend monarch and military shirker, a real king reminded us of them with gentility and wit. Ah, if only we let his words sink in.







































